Common problems for puppy owners

A new puppy can be life-changing and at first, it may not always feel like it’s in the best way. We’ve asked dog owners what were their biggest puppy problems during the first few months so you can know what to expect.

Without fail, almost every new puppy owner has hit a point when they despairingly wonder, ‘what on earth have I done?’ and may even think ‘this is all a huge mistake’.

Do these puppy problems sound familiar? If it’s where you are right now, don’t worry. Virtually everyone feels like that – and it’s actually a very good sign. It means that you’re taking the responsibilities of puppy-ownership seriously, and are doing everything possible to ensure your dog gets the very best start in life; but the journey can be exhausting, and is certainly life-changing.

Some psychologists think that new dog owners go through a similar period to new parents when it comes to the ‘baby blues.’ Whilst there isn’t the huge hormonal shift that having a baby brings, all new owners have a vision in their minds of what having a puppy will be like, and picture the joys of their new arrival with anticipation. Often when their puppy arrives, the reality isn’t anything like the dream; and suddenly they are 100% responsible for this unexpectedly demanding new family member, who needs them 24 hours a day, without a break. That’s when the puppy blues so often kick in.

You’re not alone with this feeling, here at Purina, we understand these puppy problems and the stresses that come with it. We’ve asked members of our team what the biggest challenges were during puppyhood, from toilet training to separation anxiety. Keep reading to discover how they felt about raising a pup.

Struggling to cope

"After about a week, I just felt like a complete failure. I was so tired I couldn’t think straight and everything seemed to be going wrong. Monty was still peeing and pooing in the house, he’d chew anything that he could find, and any time I turned my back, he’d be doing something he shouldn’t. This was causing conflict in the family and I couldn’t even leave him to go to the shops to get away from it all. I hadn’t realised that having a puppy was so difficult and twenty times a day I nearly picked up the phone to his breeder to ask her to take him back because I couldn’t cope. I’m so glad I didn’t though as he’s now my best friend and I couldn’t ever imagine life without him."

- Lindsey, owner of Monty, now a 14-month-old Golden Retriever.

A lot of time and a lot of patience, however, and we finally got there in the end…and I have to say, once we really cracked it, I was more elated about my puppy going for wees outside than I thought would ever be possible!"

- Ellie, Purina Vet and owner of Evie, now a 1-year-old Miniature Dachshund

I feel so much better now and less worried; although she is still a puppy, she is used to the environment (my home) and knows to relax until I come back. It is all about time."

- Haelee, Purina Brand Manager and owner of Pickle, now a 10-month-old Cockerpoo

The first week with a new puppy

These feelings usually come in the first week with a new puppy when owners are toilet training and so aren’t getting enough sleep. Their entire waking moments are spent watching their puppy to make sure they don’t have toileting accidents, chew anything they shouldn’t or get into trouble, and they can’t go anywhere or do anything (including go to the bathroom) without taking their new dog into consideration.

"Lily had a habit of finding the odd table leg or flip flop to chew when left on her own for short periods!

This a time when owners are trying hard to do everything right for their puppy, but it can sometimes be overwhelming and not at all what they had expected. For some this can be combined with a sense of grieving for their old, carefree, pre-puppy days!

The good news is that these feelings and puppy problems are only temporary. Soon the puppy begins to settle, life starts to become far more relaxed again (although never back to how it was) and the relationship you build with your new dog and the unconditional love you get back in return replaces the previous feelings of panic and worry. You won’t be able to imagine life without your dog – and nor would you want to.

Worries can spiral out of control quite quickly. The lack of sleep is killer, and sometimes you take steps back and it would feel like everything we’d worked on had been undone. Essentially – a lot of heightened emotions! Luckily time and perseverance really are the answer. Once she started sleeping through the night everything calmed down. Now I can’t imagine my life without her."

- Martina, Purina Experience Lead and owner of Luna, now a 1-year-old Miniature Dachshund

How to handle the initial puppy problems:

Here are a few things to keep in mind if you’re dealing with puppy problems.

Watch to see how new puppy parents in Purina survived their puppy's settling-in phase.

Puppyhood really is a joy and it goes by so fast – but it can be a challenge. Expect that, plan for that – and enjoy it!

Want to find out about the next stages of puppy ownership? Learn what to expect from puppy adolescence.